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Oh my goodness there's an essay in there!

It took a lot of work for me to get past the "lone genius [usually a dude] sitting in a room drinking whiskey turning out fabulous books" mindset of writing. I was definitely brought up with that, and with the idea that everyone should be in service to said lone genius (though in my case it wasn't a dude). When the truth is that writing is the most collaborative work in my life aside from parenting. Most writers seem to be that way, too, at least the ones I know and like, though few seem to talk about it?

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Yes, and it's complex, because for me the writing itself requires solitude. Acres of it. Even if I'm not actively writing, I need that background of solitude to hear myself well enough to write later. And also: definitely writing is hugely collaborative. Maybe not constantly so, but those interactive parts are key, and good writing just does not exist without them. Also, like the solitude-background, to write something meaningful outside of my own self, I need to be in a regularly collaborative context. How to live creatively in both of those directions is a constant question.

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Oh my gosh YES. The solitude. It's a weird, weird balance.

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