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Chris

Condolences for the loss of your cousin.

I am so enjoying “Becoming Little Shell”

It was so nice running into you at the post office.

Some words of advice.

Contact your friend, the band member.

I decided to a few years ago to contact someone out of the blue, who meant a lot to me.

She had just been diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer.

She was so thrilled to hear from me.

My mom died in February. I was back in Illinois for her burial.

My friend from 40 years ago, contacted and we got together. It was like we had not been apart for 40 years. She was the one who initiated contact, as I had lost track of her.

My point being, don’t wait to contact your friend. If your friend wants nothing to do with you, at least you tried. Don’t wait and regret.

My friends above, said that after they retired , their goal is to contact people from their past life who meant so much to them. Of all the people that they have re contacted with,they said only one person had told them to go fly a kite. Only not in those kind words.

I don’t expect this friend to ever be my best friend again, but I cherish the thought of how nice they are, how I picked good friends and how easy, though difficult, to connect again.

The same has happened with my husband.

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